How important is it? When I am dealing with a huge decision, I stop and ask myself this: What will be the outcome of my decision...in 10 minutes...in 10 months...in 10 years? And then it is easy to decide because the answer usually tells me what I need to know. Then I can let it go, knowing that the universe will take care of the rest. There is much grace in letting go, like a balloon floating up into the sky.