Sit With Your Discomfort
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- Second-guess yourself
- Rehash the conversation in your mind
- Attribute feelings of disappointment and displeasure to the recipient
- Entertain feelings of guilt
- Overcompensate as you try to make yourself comfortable in a space that now feels uncomfortable
A dear friend of mine calls this nano seconds--the time spent spinning around a decision or line drawn in the sand. You may want to run back and compromise. I've run back many times, disregarding my own truth and not standing my ground, only to be slowly pulled back into the familiar pattern.
Don't do anything; just sit with the newness and your discomfort. Be prepared to sit in that uncomfortable space while the new habit/behavior takes root. This takes time. What can you do in that space while you wait? What self-care can you enact in place of the old behavior?
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